Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Forgive and Forget

MooMoo did something out of the norm today.  It is really something that MooMoo also could not imagine that she did that.  Anyway, it had been 2 years+ and after much thinking, MooMoo decided to just sort things out and move on.  At one time, MooMoo thought she can just forget about it, ignore it and just move on but she is wrong, as it does still bother her sometimes.

It is always not easy to forgive and forget.  Sometimes we says that we forgive and forget but deep inside we still hold a grudge and it still makes us unhappy when it pops up in our mind.  When one actually decides to forgive and forget, there is no point to further find faults with each other and decide who is right and who is wrong.  It is no longer important. 

MooMoo felt a relief after talking things through and it was not that bad after all.  It was better than what MooMoo expected.  Thank God for the courage and everything! ^=^

Guess sometimes throughout life, certain things, events and people comes into our lives and teaches us different things, as well as provide us different experiences, which will make us grow.  Sometimes we learn things the hard way.  Anyway, everyday is a learning experience, till the day we have our last breathe.  Maybe up till then, we still continue to learn in another world.  Haha!   


* It is always easier to be a BAD guy than to be a GOOD one... not easy to be a forgiving person... but never give up to walk in GOD's way... in order to take the easy way out... some nice quotes to ponder on... ^=^

“The truth is, unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself, unless you forgive the situation, unless you realize that the situation is over, you cannot move forward.” 
 Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free


“People are often unreasonable and self-centered. Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, people may accuse you of ulterior motives. Be kind anyway. 
If you are honest, people may cheat you. Be honest anyway.
If you find happiness, people may be jealous. Be happy anyway.
The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway.
Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough. Give your best anyway. 
For you see, in the end, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway.” 

 Mother Teresa

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