"Treat yourself the way you want to be treated."
--- Natasa Porter
I believe that the statement above is quite true. It is so 100% true especially if you treat people badly. Most of the time, if you treat people badly, people just tend to treat you badly in return. BUT... is is not 100% true that if you treat people nicely, in return people treat you nice.
Well, it doesn't mean that people treat you badly, you have to treat people badly. We all got a CHOICE of how to react to people and how to treat people BUT as human nature takes over... we tend to give way to our human values and return the unkindness that we received.
It may be not so encouraging when you believe in the above quote by treating people nicely and expecting people to treat you back nicely... but sometimes some people just fail your expectations.
Therefore, we should treat people nicely without expecting anything in return. Then, we will not get disappointed and we have done our part well without failing our ownself. How other people react to us, we cannot control and it's their CHOICE.
It's always easier said than done but at least we try to do our best.
There's another saying below... Points to ponder... ^=^
"How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours."
---Wayne Dyer
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